I very rarely know if I'm making a difference with my kids -- but these are the things I KNOW are impactful---
1. "Good morning" with a smile. The most difficult child can't help but respond.
2. A pat on the back with a "How'd you sleep?" I always get a smile, an answer, and a hug.
3. Notice-- the new glasses, haircut, braces, headband, shoes. The kids are so thrilled and will tell the story behind the change.
4. Tell stories about yourself. They will be vulnerable if I will. Stories about failures are big hits!
5. Be approachable. Nothing is too small for me to stop and discuss. If it's important to them it's important to me.
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